Happiness and Honolulu

    

Wow there is so much to write about today... first I'm pretty stoked about the trip to Hawaii in October...yes its for work but with the rest of my free time I'm sure there are adventures to be had....Second, I find it very hard to find sympathy for those in life who have settled... people that have married just because they thought time was running out... so when people like that have problems or issues with their spouse or significant other i find it extremely hard to listen to their issues or feel sorry for them. you make your bed you lay in it yanno? so then here i am looking like the heartless ass that doesnt care. when i hear things like "oh you need a boyfriend" or " dont you think its time you found somebody to settle down with".... My answer is always NO. Why? because I'm not a settler, I'm a dreamer and I believe that if I am meant to be with someone they will stumble across my path and I will just know. I couldnt settle for anything less than pure true love...there is just no way. Also the "oh whitney, when are you going to have children" question...well my friends here is your answer I'M NOT. I dont want them. They constant pressure of society's idea of what is right makes me want to throw up. Your life is about YOU, finding who YOU are, making YOU happy on your own, being free, making friends, going on adventures, loving everybody you can, having a good time and at the end of the day forgetting what you are "supposed" to be doing and do what You want to do. life is a beautiful thing and its sad to see it wasted. I'm not saying a significant other is a waste of time, they can be great to share you life and adventures with as long as they are the right person. marriage does not create happiness, neither does a ring on your finger...You create it. Live your life peacefully, happily, simply, and for god sake have a little fun and dont worry about people judging it. you are beautiful, life is beautiful so embrace it.